Sunday, July 27, 2008

There Is No Relationship Better Than True Friends!! --->> Friends Are MAde In Heaven!!....


Well Frnds When I Was Just Whiling Away My Time i Thought abt My Frnds and got an idea why not to write abt "what is true friendship", "when does a frnd becomes a treasure to us" , "when does a normal frnd becomes a true one".. So well here it goes!!..

A FRIEND IS A TREAURE

A friend is someone we turn to
When our spirits need a lift,
A friend is someone we treasure
For our friendship is a gift,
A friend is someone who fills our lives
With beauty, joy, and grace
And makes the world we live in
A better and happier place

We all have frnds.. A lot gets talked about frndships. Everyone wants a true friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called a true frnd... What kind of relations do frnds share?.. When can we call a friend a true frnd, and when can our friends take us as their true frnd... After a romantic relationship, frndships are the most important relationships we can have... Though all of us have family and distant family, most of us rely on friends for advice, comfort and inspiration... How do we define a relation that can be called as one of true frndship?..

The very first sign of a very good frnd, not necessarily a true friend is that we are not worried about courtesies... You will call your friend at any hour and talk without any thought of time in your mind. Similarly, whenever you need support, you will call a very good frnd and ask him/her to help you out.. They expect the same from you. Another important trait of such relations is that we are not much worried about exposing ourselves. We speak abt everything in our mind without worrying about what our friends will think... We are sure that they will take our talk in the spirit it was made. We are unguarded and open with frnds in our talk...

A true frnd is a little more than a very good friend... A true frnd will support u even if it hurts his/her own interest... A true frnd will understand your motives and needs and will be with you without any analysis or criticism... A true frnd will come forward to help without any request and be with us in need without showing it or expecting anything in return... With a true frnd, you can be sure that you will get help to the extent possible by him/her... Nothing will remain unturned. A mother is a true friend of her children. If we share such relations with an adult we can say that we are true frnds...

A true frnd makes no excuses of having work or appointments or anything but will be with you whenever you need him/her... In your hour of desperation, a true frnd will support you even if the whole world opposes you.. A true friend is not an opportunist. A true friend means to have someone who is like mother, as I said earlier. Instead of having hundreds of good friends, if you have a true frnd, treat yourself lucky... If you can also become a true frnd of someone, you will be blessed, because it is much easier for all of us to expect but very difficult to give... Be a true frnd yourself first...

2 comments:

Unknown said...

HEY ya.. an excellent post.. cheers

Bala said...

@samyuktha-->> hy thanks ya..